Is the reason you started training still the same now?
I’m going to put myself on the line and say the answer to the above question is No. Nearly all of our initial motivation to change fitness/nutrition behaviour is for extrinsic (outside). Extrinsic reasons vary from wanting to fit into certain clothes, to take on a physical challenge or to please others.
There is nothing wrong with that, but extrinsic motivation in most cases doesn’t deliver long-term adherence. Why? After all, you would think rewarding yourself materially or being rewarded with praise from others would be a great motivation.
The problem with rewarding a behaviour is when you complete the task, receive the reward, then motivation is gone. This also raises the question: if you increase the intensity of the task, do you increase the value of the reward? This is difficult to sustain when training which needs to be a long-term commitment to be effective.
The opposite of extrinsic motivation is intrinsic (internal) motivation. You are completing the task or changing the behaviour purely for the joy of completing the task itself.
Those of you who are consistently training day in day out for years are almost certainly doing it for more intrinsic reasons. Training makes you feel good about yourself, gives you a sense of achievement and wellbeing that drives you to keep going and to challenge yourself.
Here are some tips on how to move from extrinsic motivation to intrinsic.
- Select an activity you want to do. Deciding yourself rather than letting others decide for you gives a sense of autonomy, meaning you are more likely to be engaged with your choice. Be the Commander of your own ship!
- Make sure the activity is challenging but not so much that you never feel you are progressing. Learning a new skill should stimulate and give you a thirst for more knowledge. If something is too hard, you can feel demotivated and quit.
- Do an activity that gives you a sense of purpose. It should make you feel you are moving forward and making a difference. You may feel going for a walk in the morning doesn’t just up your step count, it also clears your head, making you more productive for the working day. Lifting weights has strengthened you inside and out, building your confidence to ask for that pay rise at work.
- Make it fun! The more you enjoy something, the easier it is to do.
Training that provides lasting changes to your health needs to be a lifelong commitment, and this can only happen if it’s a habit built around intrinsic motivation. Take some time to figure out what yours are. If you have trouble doing this, maybe you need to rethink what you are doing.
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